Best dating tips for men (written by a woman)

Best dating tips for men

As far as social relationships are concerned, the area of knowledge is something that changes every two for you. Try to adapt to the changes, and take inspiration from these tips.

Best dating tips for men

Are you planning an appointment for when the Covid-19 threat is over? Have you not resisted from having a secret meeting in Milan despite the lockdown? Are you talking about the women you meet through chat?

Surely you ask yourself the same questions as all men: what should I wear? Where can we go? Do I have to talk a lot or a little? After the appointment is over, how long do I have to wait before I can call her again?

What you will read here is a series of tips that I give to men from my very personal point of view: that of an adult woman who has seen everything and more.

1. The first impression is the most important

It means that you have to appear clean and tidy in your style. Be sure of yourself; this drives women crazy.

In addition to the well-groomed appearance, your way of living and thinking will also make you really attractive to her eyes. If you want to know how to win over a girl, this is the way to go.

Don’t try to be who you are, not just because you like a woman. Unless you just want an occasional relationship, because pretending doesn’t work in the long run.

This means that you don’t have to go to a gala dinner dressed in a tuxedo if you hate those kinds of events or don’t go to a Pearl Jam concert because you prefer opera. Don’t do it, just because you like a woman.

2. Choose a comfortable seat

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If the woman in question does not mind choosing the place and gives you the opportunity to do so, choose a place where you feel comfortable. A bad date is an awful experience to forget, so choose a place where you feel comfortable. Of course, don’t go to places where you meet your friends, like bars, as this may upset your partner, especially if it’s the first date.

3. Trust yourself

Okay, meeting someone in Palermo (just to name my hometown) is relatively easy, thanks to dating sites like, but these pages will not help you exit.

In the end, there will be only you and her. So it’s better to have self-confidence because it’s something that women always appreciate.

Important: Don’t confuse self-confidence with narcissism. One last thing: don’t complain about the world or yourself. Being beautiful certainly gives you something extra, but I insist, there is nothing sexier than a man who feels comfortable with his body.

4. It’s an appointment, not a monologue

If you want to know how to contact the woman you are having dinner with; if you want chemistry between you, you must have a fluid conversation because from the moment you speak, only you know that the woman will be bored.

 Unless you’re an astronaut, a theater genius, unless you’ve saved millions of lives in the third world: don’t speak just you. 

5. When you speak, try to be entertaining and fun

No matter what you are facing in your life, anyone who complains is not sexy. If the relationship continues, you will have opportunities to talk about your life, but for now, you need to talk about beautiful and happy.

It is better to tell a funny anecdote about something that happened to you in university than to explain that you are an industrial engineer and that you have many opportunities for this.

6. Please don’t talk about your ex

Better not to open the topic “ex-boyfriends” unless she asks you. If she does, try giving short answers and change the subject elegantly, without arousing suspicion. The best thing to do is to use such a formula: “it was nice as long as it lasted, but there was no chemistry between us, and we decided to move away from each other. I think this is the answer to the question ” how to end a relationship. “

7. Do not use the phone

Flirting on WhatsApp can be a good idea, but be careful to choose the right moment; there is nothing worse than seeing someone looking at their mobile screen while you tell them something.

It is a lack of respect. My ex-husband won me over when he turned off the phone without answering an incoming call. It was a real show of interest. (This was the first of many other tricks, but that’s another story.)

8. Pay the bill in half

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Everything you do will cost you money, so pay it half. There is nothing wrong with having a drink, of course, but almost all women refuse men who pose as wandering knights, they are not the princesses who must be saved. Women want kindness and virility; we cannot bear condescending paternalism.

9. Know when to call after the appointment. 

It depends on the type of appointment. Have you tried chemistry? Were there any kisses? Maybe something more than just a kiss? Casual intercourse? Whatever happened, if a woman gives you her phone number, know that it’s up to you to call her.

10. Talk to a friend about the appointment

At school, they don’t explain how to be a good interlocutor. There are few sites where you can learn to behave with a woman you just met. And few are those who focus mainly on the female gender. Talking to a woman about an appointment will help you a lot since she will be able to give you her point of view.

Practice! The world of dating with women has always been there at your fingertips, but it is now that it has been revolutionized, thanks to the dating pages. 

Now anyone can learn the best tricks to flirt and meet different women, even for five days straight, if you feel like it. 

Basically, there are two ways to manage an appointment when it isn’t going as planned. Be honest and say it politely before saying goodbye or joking, I always insist that you have to endure the other person. If you know you will never see her again, relax, you have nothing to lose. 


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It doesn’t matter if you have an extramarital meeting in Florence or Bologna; a long-term relationship in a Tuscan city or a night of lovemaking in Paris: there is no better environment for a romantic evening than with the sound of people’s laughter. Let me ask you a question, but answer it honestly. Are you a funny person? 

If you are, congratulations, it will be a stereotype, but women appreciate who makes them smile. Surprise!

The truth is, everyone likes to smile. Remember, laughing isn’t like smiling.

He can have fun even if you talk about super exciting things that don’t make you laugh. Laughter is something profound, cathartic, uncontrolled, and common to all ethnic groups and cultures. But it doesn’t have to be forced. Forcing laughter or humor, if you don’t have the ability to make people laugh, can often lead to disaster. 

I hope these tips have helped you get an idea of ​​what women like when they have a date with a man.

It doesn’t matter if you want to have an appointment in Bologna, Florence or a city with a thousand inhabitants.

Start your climb.

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By Rebecca KENNEDY

Rebecca is a single mother, relationship advisor, and blogger. She is a 27-year-old kitchen assistant who enjoys praying, listening to music, and extreme ironing. She is chubby and sexy, but can also be very lazy and a bit unstable.

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